The New Normal

Tonight it was hard not to notice the countless posts about feelings of sadness, and in some cases distress, over a summer that seems to have come and gone all too quickly. For many, the fun and freedom associated with summer, seems to be slipping away once again. While I share in the sentiments of longing for summer to last just a few more days, my post is not one of apprehension or anxiety like it has been on so many Sunday night's in years past. Tonight there is excitement, joy, freedom, and belief in the power of gameChangers.

Last August the tearful posts were my normal. I have felt the overwhelming ache of having to wrap up a summer full of memories with tears and trepidation about the school year ahead. Although I loved working with "my kids" and their families, and even some of you reading this right now, my girls and Chad got what was left of me, because I was so busy giving others the best of me. Thankfully I had a few gameChangers who saw an opportunity for a better way for our family and others like us who needed to break with tradition and boldly step in faith towards a life of freedom.

One year ago I didn't believe that I could ever really be a work-from-home mommy, yet here I am. A year ago I never really saw the opportunity that was before us because I was afraid to believe. I was afraid to fail. I was afraid of what other people might think. Fear kept me from believing in the dreams we had buried in our hearts and the life we truly desired. We've been blessed by the love and support of gameChangers throughout our lives. Many of you have always been gameChangers who believed in us, who supported us, who loved on us as we embarked upon this journey of life and this past year and half with AdvoCare. There were a some of you whose faith was, and still is, bigger than my fear. Thank you to all of you who are still there, believing in us, supporting us, and loving on us as we continue to live out our story, as we seek to be gameChangers for others.

So tonight I don't mourn summer's end, I celebrate the new normal. I celebrate the freedom to invest in this family and in others, to spend time pouring into others on different terms. I celebrate the opportunity of a new normal for our girls. I celebrate life and the gift it is to be on this earth one more day.

I am thankful that I can understand the sadness of summer's end, but live in the joy of a better way for our family and any other family whose faith is bigger than their fear. I am thankful for the change I didn't even know I was looking for. I am thankful for my buddy, my gameChanger, and the future that awaits us. #dreamitdoit #beagameChanger

Undoing the Undone

Sometimes it's the little things that inspire us to make changes in our lives. Other times, it's the big things in life that hit close to home and cause us to realize that this life is short and we only get one shot to live the life of our dreams. 

I've taken a little friendly slack from a few of you about how long it's been since I posted and while my good intentions are ALWAYS there, like many things in my life this past year or so, I've allowed other things to steal my time, my vision, my purpose, and my dreams. "I'll get to it" I find myself saying so many times, then another day passes and there's a laundry list of things still left undone. I tend to beat myself up for those undones, to get more frustrated by what I didn't do, than to realize the power I have to just do something on that list the next day.

The end of this past school year (forget it, the whole school year) was a great challenge for me, both personally and professionally. And in the last weeks of school I found myself experiencing the excruciating pain and confusion that accompanies the loss of someone you love. I sat on the sidelines, sometimes lost in my own sadness, watching a family with unimaginable strength, unexpectedly say goodbye to their little girl, to their sweet Anne Marie. 

The same Anne whose namesake lives on in our Anne Elizabeth and whose "Annietude" is alive and well in our beautiful girl as well. And in those moments of grief, sadness, and loss, I realized that there will always be undones in life. There will always be things we cannot control, things we do not understand, things we might wish we could change because surely God didn't mean for it to go this way . . . 


It was in the midst of those final weeks in May I found the book Draw the Circle, or should I say, it found me. 

Struggling with the reality of AnnIe facing her final moments on the earth in the coming days, my sister shared a book with me that has rocked my world in unimaginable ways. NewPointe Church , where my parents and other friends back home are reaching the community of Coshocton, was starting this 40 day prayer challenge called Draw the Circle by Mark Batterson. I'll forgo the details at the moment, but over the course of the next 40 days the book put many things into perspective for me. I was forced to face my tough questions about what had happened to Annie and what the immediate and distant future held for me. I was challenged to think about what I believed and how much faith I had, or didn't, about the dreams in my heart. 

In the coming days and weeks I will share more of my journey, and hopefully drag a few of you along with me, in regards to my first 40 days of Draw the Circle, but I mention it now because there were days I fell behind. There were times that my quiet time became another undone in my day, but that 40 days also taught me that sometimes we can make up for things we've let slide past us. Sometimes we can set a new goal or recommit to complete one that we've put in front of us. I learned that I have the power to influence and change the outcome of at least some of my undones. That 40 days taught me that this life is truly a precious gift and that dreams weren't meant for dark places in our hearts, but they were meant to be lived. If God puts a dream in your heart, He will make it real for you! 

One of our dreams came true in June when I was able to walk away from my full-time teaching job and be a work-from-home-mom. I'm able to pour into our girls and experience life with them every day (even the tough ones!). It was a dream I didn't even realize I had just a few years ago. AdvoCare has been the vehicle that has allowed that to happen for our family. The opportunity to leave a job that was getting the best of me while my family got what was left of me was only a possibility at this time, in this moment, because of the difference we've been able to make in our lives and in the lives of others through AdvoCare.  But it was something I wanted four years ago when Gracie was born. I had to wait. I had to learn some things. I had to experience some hardships, but I got to experience some of the joys along the way too. I had to leave a lot of things undone, feeling at times like life was unraveling, but all the while, God was weaving together a perfect plan in HIS time.

There is so much more on my heart and mind, but there will be other days for sharing. Although our dream it, do it blog was left undone for quite some time, it is one of those things that I look forward to pouring into as I begin to discover how to spend my time in different ways. It's Saturday morning and it's time for a "run" - more to come on that adventure soon - so I will leave you with this: There will always be a laundry list of things to do or finish, but the BIG things, they are NEVER left undone. 

~ dream it. do it. ~ Jeremiah 29:11 ~

"Oh, how is that working out for you?"

"Oh, how is that working out for you?"

As I reflect on Thanksgiving and anticipate the Christmas season, my heart is full.  I am so thankful for the amazing things in my life and how I have been blessed.  I sometimes ask myself "what did I do to deserve all I have?"  A stunningly beautiful, caring, passionate and ultimately loving wife.  Two ornery, yet innocent and equally as passionate daughters.  A fantastic support system in our families, and a lifestyle of serving others through our teaching professions.  I truly am a blessed man.

One then might ask...

• "If you are so blessed, why are you doing this Advocare thing?" or

• "Do you really think that your "pyramid scheme" is going to work?" (imagine this being said in a   sarcastic voice :) or my favorite...

• "Oh, how is that working out for you?"  

My answers...

• It is what I do!  I am serving others, changing lives and helping my family.  Why wouldn't I do it? 

• Yes, my direct selling business (not pyramid scheme) is set up for short term and long term success (if interested in what I mean, Click Here for a humorous yet purposeful outlook on network marketing).  

• "Oh, how is that working for you?"  It is working.  Period.

Okay, sure Chad... easy to put on the blog at 9:53 at night.  Prove it, why do you say it is working?

Glad you asked...

1. I live a healthier lifestyle through Advocare.  What do I mean by healthy?  I am physically healthier.  I lost 25 lbs. in 24 days and nearly a year later I still feel amazing.  The products work.  I don't drink coffee, completely kicked the soda habit and am a much healthier eater due to these world class products.  I am mentally and emotionally healthier.  With physical health comes an improved state of mind along with body.  Do I still experience stress?  YES!  Am I better prepared to deal with this stress?  ABSOLUTELY!  Advocare has helped me understand and prepare for the challenges I will face.  Lastly, I am financially healthier.  Through Advocare I have taken control of my finances and have shifted my focus for preparing for the future.  I am excited to see where the future leads us.
2. My family is healthier.  Lindsey, Gracie and Annie not only benefit from a healthier husband and father, but they are also seeing the benefits of the world class products themselves.  Purple Champs and Pro-Biotics for the kids.  Plenty of Spark, Omegas, CorePlex and Catalyst for Lindsey.  My brother has lost 31 pounds and looks and feels like a new person and my parents are as healthy as they have been in the last 15 years.  Yeah, my family is healthier :)    
3. Advocare is providing a Plan B income for my family.  I am not looking to get rich quick or have others make me tons of money.  I am working a proven, successful system to help and serve others and be paid now and for years to come.   As we continue to invest time and energy in this company I know that I am creating opportunities and blessings for my family and others in the future. 

My mindset is one of belief and empowerment.  In a day and age of gloom and doom, I am being decisive about my future and am acting upon this decision daily.  My highest call as a leader is to serve others.  I am excited to share this opportunity with others and hope you ask... "Oh, how is that working out for you?"

When I checked my phone after a long day at work and an email came through about the call below, I thought "Oh, great. Another LATE night call?!"  And trust me, those of you who have to wake at 5am to get yourself and your kiddos out the door know what I mean when I say that 11pm seems way too LATE to be up listening to some guy talk about AdvoCare! 

But as I sat down to delete the email, I clicked on the link instead, just to see what tonight's call was going to be about and as I began to read I decided I not only needed to stay up and listen, but perhaps some of you might need to listen too. 

In the midst of chaos, confusion, and questions about life and purpose, we all have moments where others stand in the gap for us. Our family has recently experienced unexpected heartache, pain, and frustration and it has allowed me to, once again, realize how much my family really matters to me. But like most of us, I get caught up in the day-to-day and often cannot be there when unexpected times of life occur. Today's email reminded me that AdvoCare will be the opportunity that allows me to BE THERE in the near future as life happens in this family. 

Tonight's call features Wayne Johnson, who is just like many of us - a hard working man ( a 6-figure-income-earning IT consultant in-fact) with no time, no energy and no true plan for financial & time freedom. Nine years ago he grabbed the part-time AdvoCare income opportunity and now earns over $90,000/mo.

Tonight he will share exactly how to earn an extra $1,000 - $5,000/mo in the next 90 days part time. 

Whatever the reason you have read this far on my latest post, here are a few reasons that might motivate you to pick up the phone and just listen tonight. 

• You don't have any time? 
• You need debt freedom? 
• You are one of the 82% of the people that hate what they do? 
• You have bigger dreams that can't be reached at the current rate? 
• You want to take all-expense paid vacations? 
• Daycare raising the kids? 
• You need to cover the mortgage payment? 
• You need to cover the car payment? 
• You want to be at home? 

You do not have to talk..you will be on a listen only line. 
In fact...if you don't like what you are hearing...simply hang Up!
There's nothing to lose  . . . but there's possibly much to be gained. 

So I guess the only thing left to ask yourself is will you BE THERE?

LISTEN TONIGHT
If you do choose to listen and have questions or want more info about what you hear, you know where to find us and we're here for you anytime! 

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Timing is everything . . .

I'm learning a LOT about timing right now. Some lessons are harder than others. But I'm learning it's all about timing. Tomorrow will be the time for some of you. 

A sense of urgency

Sometimes the opportunities before us are there at just the right time, for just the right reasons. Sometimes the opportunities put before us are ones we didn't even realize we needed to take advantage of in the first place. Sometimes opportunities pass us by if we are too apprehensive to make a decision one way or the other. 

I am someone who walks that fine line between indecision and taking the time to seek wisdom. I want to be sure that I am making the right choice, the best choice, the wisest choice. However, in my desire to do "the right thing" I often waste time and have consequently missed some valuable opportunities to grow and change. Thankfully I have a spouse, and an Advocare team, who pushes me to be better, to act with confidence and to look forward with a decisive heart. It's hard to be pushed and pulled outside my comfort zone, but I am learning it's a worthwhile process. Growth, discomfort, change, it all comes whether we embrace it or not.  It's not easy, but I'm starting to realize that each moment I spend in indecision is a moment wasted. 

As a I look ahead to another school year, leaving my children with our amazing sitter, and pouring more of me into others, I'm anxious, apprehensive, and excited at the same time. I know that the school year ahead is full of potential and full of opportunities to grow. My purpose is clear. My passion is strong. So I look forward with a decided heart, an urgency to move with intensity, passion, and purpose.                                  ~Linds

It's time to Carpe Diem . . . 

Jeremiah 29:11 - 13